Feeling Overwhelmed? Understanding and Managing Stress

Stress. It’s a word we hear all too often, and for good reason. In today’s fast-paced world, we’re constantly bombarded with demands on our time, energy, and mental well-being. But what exactly is stress, and how can we effectively manage it?

Understanding the Fight-or-Flight Response:

Stress is the body’s natural reaction to a perceived threat or challenge. When we face a stressful situation, our bodies release hormones like adrenaline and cortisol. This triggers the “fight-or-flight” response, preparing us to either confront the threat or flee from danger.

In short bursts, this response can be helpful, giving us the focus and energy to deal with a demanding situation. However, chronic stress, when the fight-or-flight response is constantly activated, can have a detrimental impact on our physical and mental health.

Symptoms of Chronic Stress:

Chronic stress can manifest in a variety of ways, including:

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Physical symptoms: Headaches, muscle tension, fatigue, digestive issues, difficulty sleeping.

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Emotional symptoms: Anxiety, irritability, depression, difficulty concentrating.

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Behavioral symptoms: Overeating, social withdrawal, substance abuse.

Self-Help Strategies for Managing Stress:

While chronic stress can take a toll, there are steps you can take to manage it and improve your well-being:

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Identify Your Stressors: The first step is to pinpoint the sources of your stress. Is it work deadlines, financial strain, relationship issues, or something else?

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Develop Relaxation Techniques: Practice activities that help you unwind and de-stress, such as yoga, meditation, deep breathing exercises, spending time in nature, or listening to calming music.

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Prioritise Self-Care: Make time for activities you enjoy, whether it’s reading, spending time with loved ones, or pursuing a hobby. Getting enough sleep and eating a healthy diet are also crucial for stress management.

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Set Boundaries: Learn to say no to requests that drain your energy or time. Setting healthy boundaries protects your well-being and reduces stress.

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Seek Social Support: Connecting with supportive friends, family members, or a therapist can be a valuable source of strength and understanding.

When Self-Help Isn’t Enough: Seeking Professional Support

Sometimes, self-help strategies alone aren’t enough to manage chronic stress. In these cases, seeking professional help from a therapist can be incredibly beneficial.

How Therapy Can Help with Stress:

Stress can sometimes be a symptom of deeper issues like anxiety, depression, or trauma. A therapist can help you explore and address any underlying causes of your stress. A therapist can provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore the root causes of your stress. They can also help you develop coping mechanisms, communication skills, and problem-solving strategies to manage stress more effectively. Additionally, therapy can address any underlying mental health conditions that may be contributing to your stress, such as anxiety or depression.

Remember:

Stress is a normal part of life, but it doesn’t have to control you. By understanding your stress triggers, practising self-care, and seeking professional support when needed, you can learn to manage stress and cultivate a sense of calm and well-being.

Paula Haigh - Counsellor

Author: Paula Haigh

Practice Location: Online or In-Person at Northallerton & Darlington

Top Specialities: Chronic Illness, Women’s Issues, Bereavement.

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